Our Bellesprit Diamond Psychics and Healers answer your questions each month. Receive guidance from many different perspectives and connect with one of our Diamonds who best resonates with you. Send your questions to belle@bellesprit.com. If you prefer, you can request your name to be listed in the column as anonymous; however we will need your name for our psychics to connect with your energy. Visit our Diamond Psychics and Healers Listing: http://bellesprit.com/bellesprit-diamond-psychic-and-healer-listing. Send Us Your Question Our Diamond Wisdom column is for YOU to submit one question to be answered here FREE each month by one or more of our talented psychics and healers. Question from Jess: I just lost a step dad to (supposedly) suicide, I don’t believe it. Is there a suspicion that maybe I should dig deeper or leave it alone? Why would he do that to us, especially my sister without leaving anything as to a note or something for her? Belle Salisbury: Hi Jess, I am so sorry for your loss. I immediately get that he did indeed take his life. We are assured that he is in good care and is to undergo healing. He is with an older sibling, or one who was like a sibling to him, and seems to be content at this time of his healing process.   Pamela Cummins: I see a vision of him in a hospital bed going thru a healing. He is in good hands. I feel great pain at the end of his life, honestly not getting a yes or no if he took his life. I am hearing the song lyric, “Their coming to take me away.” Which means lots of emotional and mental stress. I see a brick wall as far as you investigating it. I do feel your stepfather sending you great love and being with you in the future. Sending prayers.” Christa L Urban: I don’t feel the need to investigate this. I feel peace and relief for his soul. In between healing time is where I find him. Sadness and mistakes is what I pick up. Leave it rest and work gently through the grief.   Luci Leibfried: Dear Jess…I don’t need the cards for this one. There is no need to pursue the matter any further except to continue to love him. The pain and hopelessness that causes a person to choose to move on before their time is so personal and so overwhelming that they do not see anything else but the way out. Please understand that may mean no goodbyes, no notes…nothing. Understand he did not want to burden you with his pain. They have chosen to move on. He is healing now, he has become whole again…except it is on the other side. He will be with you and your sister in your hearts. There is much sadness around all of this on both sides…release the sadness…embrace the love. He is finding the peace he so dearly wanted when he was here, but somehow could not find. Forgiveness is key…help him to heal by keeping him in your heart. By doing that you will also heal. Blessings to you and your family. Cris Avery Cole: Dear Jess, first I am so sorry for your loss and know how hard this is for you and your family. I am hearing “leave it be” and “forgive me.” Your emotions run deep and in time you may learn some things that may make more sense to you. He is sorry for leaving, so please understand and accept that. Do the best you can to honor him, remember him happy and strong. He will always be by your side. I must add that I am getting an “I” sounding name, if that has any meaning to you. Sending prayers of healing your way my dear. Namaste. Janét Bowerman: I concur with the previous readings, but I want to add the reason I feel he didn’t leave a note. I feel he was in so much pain and confused he simply just couldn’t find the strength to put it into words. I feel what happened was not intended to do it to you or another family member. He was so caught up in despair, he was not able to. Please know he is finally at peace and has crossed over. I’m being guided to say remember the happy times and celebrate his life and try to find some peace in the family during this very sad time. Elaine Fessey: Dear Jess, I’m so sorry for the painful loss of your step-father. Whatever the circumstances surrounding his death he is now in respite from his troubles. He sends you love and wishes you to take extra care of your sister as she has been closer to his situation than you. You are capable of great strength and this is what is needed now. With much love to you and your family. Darren Leigh: Dear Jess, I am so sorry for your family’s loss, and hope you all find peace very soon. Jess, digging deeper might well give you some answers but I’m not sure that it will help you cope in the long run and may even hinder your grieving process at this time.  What I feel from your Stepfather is Regret and possibly an illness of some kind that affected his ability to make rational decisions in stressful or even difficult scenarios. I feel very few people knew about this illness as he kept it to himself. This illness was something that manifested around eight years ago. This illness may be something that you as his daughter/stepdaughter would be protected from and so you may or may not wish to clarify this with family. You need to know that he did try his best and did not wish to hurt anyone let alone his own family. I sincerely wish you and your family well during such a terrible time and send healing your way. Question from Jaylynn: When will life get easier? Do you see if I will ever be financially stable and happy? Oh and is my marriage going to fail…? lol Ok, so that’s more than one question, but as you can tell ….I’ve hit a rough patch in life. Christa L Urban: Whoa Jaylynn, put on the brakes is the first thing I hear. Too many things, too many worries. I pulled a Tarot card for you and it is the 10 of wands. This tells me exactly that you are carrying way too much. How do you approach the problem? Relax, meditate, and use constructive thoughts to place all things in order, don’t run around crazy playing pick-up sticks. One problem, one issue at a time; the others will sort out, too. Decide what the most important thing to you is and work from there. Learn to balance your energy and don’t let others throw their burdens on you. Blessings to you. Pamela Cummins: My guides answered ‘when you get happier in the now.’ I am hearing the song lyric, “I feel the earth move under my feet, I feel the sky tumblin down, a tumblin down.” You are very unstable right now and focusing on all the outside issues. Go within. Now I am hearing ‘Ohm’ and seeing a woman sitting in meditation. Your response to what is happening around you causes more problems. Be positive and go within. Blessings to you. Janét Bowerman: I am getting this has a lot to do with attitude and a lesson in how you perceive your life at this time. I am being shown the butterfly which is my symbol for growth and renewal in your life. My guides are saying for you to enjoy the little things in life and take each day as it comes. Also, to put into place and practice some positive affirmations each day. The peace you seek is within you. I feel like you have put a lot of pressure on yourself to do the ‘right thing.’ Release the pressure and ‘allow’ and you will find happiness. I feel on some level you’re expecting your marriage to fail and therefore are setting the intent for it to do so. I feel with hard work on your part to find happiness within will create a better atmosphere and opportunity for your marriage to succeed. Elaine Fessey: Hello Jaylynn. I can feel so much frustration around your questions. Sometimes we need to slow down and appreciate all that we have around us and stop fretting about the future. As I see this, you have two paths to follow. By opening up to a quiet and contented life you can have everything you wish for. By being dissatisfied with the simple things in life you are going to continue to feel like this and block progress. Your husband is trying hard to make you happy. Look back at your childhood and see where the dissatisfaction began. By speaking out loud to a friend or therapist you can clear this away and feel peace and happiness in all areas of your life. Best wishes. Cris Avery Cole: Hi Jaylynn, please know you are not alone when it comes to hitting rough patches. But to get to your question(s), Spirit clearly told me 18 months. What that means is by that time life would have done a 180 degree turn around and you will be happier in all areas. It seems like a long time away but honestly it will fly by. Spirit tells me you need to stop pointing fingers at everyone around you and look within. This is not always easy but it’s necessary in order to allow a new path to be clear. Best wishes Jaylynn. Namaste! Mystic Mandy: Often those people who lose what they would hope to cling to have the opportunity to completely release what never served them in the first place and to transform. The ultimate fear is of losing one’s self (or self-worth) or identity. But, even if one loses an old self, this loss can be used to find a new and more whole one. The current karmic lessons on the planet are personally and collectively/environmentally aimed at helping us release the fear of loss and the feeling of incompleteness that we have within that leaves us never happy or satisfied, no matter what we have; which we are quite blessed, have many things, can afford to waste, and fail to appreciate so much. At the same time, we create the loss through our hyperfocus on a feeling of never having enough. Many of us can only release this attitude/fear however through facing it. All I know is that what I read of the world in general, the future is going to be very different from the world of today because we will all, at some point, have to face those lessons and transmute them. Those who are able to live more simply and still find love and satisfaction will cope better than those who keep stuck in old definitions, old beliefs and lifestyles, old dependencies/attachments etc. My guides say go out in nature, relearn appreciation. They say drink water, stay hydrated, and connect to the flow of life. Don’t let life become a drain. Luci Leibfried: Jaylynn, so much going on. I pulled three cards…there is much swirling around you, obstacles…unhappiness…but there is one strong card…the King of Wands…he is thinking just as much as you are…before you can tackle all of the other things that are around you…you have to communicate with your husband. A strong front is much better than two separate camps…you need to talk with your husband…ask him if the marriage will succeed…communication is the beginning…I have such a strong sense of needing to talk it out…that is where the solution starts…once everything is out on the table…then you can clear up everything else….blessings. Question from Anonymous: When do you see my financial situation getting significantly better?!? Pamela Cummins: I heard the song lyric, “Upside down boy you’re turning me, inside out round and round.” That is in regard to your money issues. Now I heard, “A work in progress, create, create.” It is not an overnight process but will happen. Cut back on certain things. I am also getting to find a 2nd source to get more money. Blessings to you. Janét Bowerman: It will get better but it will take some time. I am feeling there is a need for discernment between your needs and your wants. This process will require your cutting back in some areas. Also I’m being shown you’re getting an additional job to supplement your income. My guides are assuring me this can be achieved with much hard work and time on your part. Cris Avery Cole: Spirit is telling me your financial situation will get better in 8-12 months’ time. There is a change on the job front for you, a new one, which will help. Whether you are currently employed, or contemplating to look for something new Spirit says “start now.” You also need to cut back on your spending where it’s not necessary. I am getting “C” and a “B” names, either a company or interviewer, so keep your eyes open. Things will get better with effort and positive thoughts. Best wishes! Namaste! Christa L Urban: I drew a card for you. 10 of swords. This tells me an ending is coming. This is part of a karmic growth process for you. I feel the change needs to be made with contracts and agreements. Have you over extended yourself. Time to reign that in. I hear, ‘consult a lawyer.’ Swords always speak to legal situations. You may need seek outside legal consult. 10 months is what I feel is the point of shift for you to start in a positive balanced situation Elaine Fessey: Hello friend, I feel that in a short while things begin to look up financially. There have been a few bumps in the road regarding career but this is changing for the better. You get the chance to make your point in a work situation or interview and then the gradual improvement in your finances begins to steadily pick up. Best wishes. Danelle Devi: I see it getting better for you in the middle of 2014. It will be slow, but you will feel and notice the subtle changes not only financially, but emotionally as well. Blessings!!!   Darren Leigh: We all seem to have questions like this at the moment, so you are not alone. The answer is 12 weeks, this will be the time it will take you to work out how not to be taken advantage of. With regards to money, I feel you are being drained by certain issues around you. You do know how to rectify this, but need a big push and to know that you will succeed. Fear is the key here, so as they say “there is nothing to fear but fear itself.” So chin up, get positive and this will enable a change that will bring you to a new direction in life. These are all moments in our lives that bring us new wonders. So don’t worry and take control. I wish you well, take care.]]>