Cancer: Most Cancerians tend to view the world through rose colored glasses. They are considered the cosmic collectors of the zodiac for their reluctance and even refusal to let go of someone who has managed to crack their hard exterior and get close to their heart. Once they fall, Cancerians tend to stay in love and are very good at keeping their partner. They dote, they lavish affection, but word to the highly independent – they are borderline needy and can be high maintenance. While they give a lot, they also expect a lot in return. Cancerians tend to be rather easily wounded and rather than directly stating what is bothering them, they can be a bit passive aggressive about it. If you feel that you have inadvertently hurt a Cancer male or female, it may be best to take the initiative towards open discussion as they are not likely to. Keep in mind, however, that they can hold a grudge. What it is that they want in return can be just as mysterious as the sign itself. Cancer women tend to want a man who is cultured and worldly, but also simple in some ways. She enjoys a man who can wear a good pair of worn in jeans, but also needs him to still ‘clean up nice’ in his suit and tie when the occasion calls for it. Cancerian men enjoy women who sometimes dress seductively or even suggestively. A low cut shirt or a short skirt, or even a good pair of high heels will draw in his attention. Cancerian men will never admit this, but they enjoy a good challenge. So many of their initial connections will benefit from a bit of coyness, especially in the bedroom and leading up to. Word to the wise, do not appear too fast. While they enjoy a seductive woman, they will only settle down and marry a woman that they can take home to mama – a good girl. or at least one who can appear that way on the surface until he gets her back in the privacy of their own home. Want to keep your Cancerian lover? Save the drama for your mama. They enjoy sweetness and tranquility, and those who thrive on drama and discord will bore the Cancer man or woman. Their ideal mates are Capricorns to bring a bit of earth element into that watery Cancerian personality, or a Pisces who will be able to match the emotional strength and flow of a Cancer. Leo: Oh the mighty lions of the zodiac! They have a fiery personality that can draw in even the most shy of lovers. They are engaging, gregarious and like to have a good time. They are prideful; full of ego and do not suffer fools lightly. They are suckers for good conversations, so being well read, intelligent and generally versed on pop and world culture is essential. They will quickly grow bored by those with superficial or no intelligence, and those who agree with all that they say will quickly be on the cutting side that all Leos possess. Though they can appear intimidating, Leo does actually need a bit of friction in their lives. Even if it’s to just show you who is alpha or for the sake of a good conversation, be sure to be honest about your thoughts and opinions. Just do not expect them to sit there meekly and nod their head. Leos are fiery in and out of the bedroom. If you want to capture their interest, pay attention and have the foundation of ‘pretty’ in place. Men-whiten your teeth, have the shoes polished and be sure that your clothes are not dated. If your Leo lioness sees you sporting a mullet, she will not only make cruel jokes at your expense, you will sooner charm a snake than you will her. Both male and female Lions are quite finicky and know what they like. Something as simple as your socks not being raised at the same level on each leg can irk them. Women – play up your assets. Do not be afraid to embrace your sexy side and play a good ole’ game of cat and mouse with your Leo lover.  Leo’s always, ALWAYS go for sexy, so do not head into your date with your demure blouse and loafers. Pull out your stiletto’s, have the hair professionally done and make sure your nails (and hands in general) are in good condition. If they shake your hand and it feels like a piece of sand paper your Leo man will be immediately turned off. Want to keep your Lion? Remember that though their bravado and ego can make it seem as though they are full of themselves, Leo’s actually tend to be quite insecure; they carry around the wounds of past transgressions with them often. Ego stroking and appeasement is necessary. Be mindful that while they need the right sort of ego stroking they will quickly grow bored with someone who fawns over them constantly. Though difficult to sometimes find balance with, your Leo lover has a fierce sense of loyalty once they fall in love. They will go to the end of the Earth for you and will work hard to make sure you, too, feel special. Ideal astrological matches for Leos are Aquarians, who know how to feed the Leo’s fire and Sagittarians, who can match them toe to toe. Virgo: Here is the kicker with our Virgo men and women – want them to fall in love with you? Of course you do! They can be quite faithful and devoted partners. The key, however, is to be someone that they can trust and depend on. If you are not able to be consistent and stable mentally, emotionally and physically, they will hit the pavement, and fast. Additionally you cannot be a push-over. Virgos need the excitement of a good argument or debate. Just be sure to check your nastiness at the door. Virgos, above all, are critically aware of social manners and behaviors. If you begin to devolve into a screaming 2 year old or end up slamming the phone down and obstinately crossing your arms and ignoring their calls, they will quickly lose any and all interest. The key with a Virgo long term is that they need to be in control of the family dynamic. They want to control the children, the house, what is made in the kitchen etc. It will be imperative that you learn to give them some control, or work with their need for control, in order for this to have any long term potential. Additionally, both male and female Virgos like a more ‘subtle’ sexiness. They do not like show-offs or those who try too hard. For them, sexiness comes from within. Those who may look good on the outside but have the personality of a juggernaut will lose the interest of their beloved Virgo. Women Virgos seem to be more preoccupied with the details; how he dresses, if he has nice hands, if he has taken good care of his hair etc. Virgo men are less concerned about these details and more concerned with whether or not they are respected and listened to. Someone who tries to make a Virgo man feel stupid (even if perhaps something that flew from their mouth was in fact ignorant) will watch as their passion gauge drops suddenly. Best matches for our Virgos would be those who fall under the signs of Pisces, who can bring some flow to the sometimes tightly wound Virgo, and Scorpios, who can ignite the latent but incredibly strong passion the Virgins of the zodiac have within.]]>