In this month’s edition of Bellesprit I have been sent a problem from Shelley. My guide and I have combined forces to answer her problem with care and consideration for all parties involved. You are invited to send in your problems to me at elainefesseyagonyaunt@bellesprit.com including just a first name. If you prefer to be anonymous let me know and your name will not be included.
Dear Agony Aunt; I have some close friends who have become angry with me for comments I posted on Facebook. Even though these were in support they are so wrapped up in this issue that they can’t see that. These people have been close friends for twenty years and one I would consider a best friend. My question is this. Will this all work out or do I write off these friendships as a loss? I like the expression, “When people see who they are, believe them.” Does this apply here? I’m so tired of this treatment from so called friends. Shelley Dear Shelley, Thank you so much for writing to me and sorry you have had to feel upset over this issue. You have been honest and truthful but this has been regarded as tactless by your friends. Each of them is learning a pre-chosen lesson here and this issue is bringing it all together. As they have not had time yet to work out their part to play they will resent you trying to work out the answer for them. They will all reach a similar conclusion but must take a personal journey of discovery first before they are ready to hear the answer. Each has an issue to face and your comments are not welcome as they try to learn this for themselves. Give this situation some time. Eventually your friends will come back once they are enlightened and healed from their own personal issues. Your issue in all of this is to step back and try to learn unconditional love and forgiveness. This situation is not personally aimed at you but you are taking the flak and this shows how strong you are. Any who don’t return as a friend are simply not ready yet. Give them time to progress at their own pace. By learning forgiveness you will open many new doors for your future. Best wishes, Agony Aunt
Agony Aunt, Elaine Fessey answers your questions for guidance in Bellesprit Magazine goo.gl/h335F — BellespritMagazine (@BellespritMagaz) September 9, 2012]]>
