break up and wake up to spiritual love Two people stare at each other unable to say another word. The accusations have flown, tears have been shed and hearts are broken. Tears flow everyday as a new situation to cope with arises without the support of the other person with whom you have been in a relationship for more years than you care to remember. You are alone, frightened and in emotional pain. Your relationship is over… Whether you and your partner have been together for three months or thirty years, the splitting up of two people who felt they were happily in love is a messy and painful business. The practical side of dividing material possessions can prove upsetting and demoralising. Having to explain to children the adult concept of two people falling out of love is difficult at a time when you are probably unable to explain to one another what went wrong, let alone rationalise it in a way that’s understandable to a child. We all have lessons to learn here in this great schoolroom called Earth and relationships are often the setting for this lesson to be acted out. While the ego attempts to understand the difficulties by indulging in jealousy, pointing the finger of blame at the other person, and staying in denial of the fact we had any input in the breakdown of the relationship. It’s never the ‘fault’ of one person when things end. By accepting the roles we play in our interactions together, an opportunity to learn the life lesson we originally chose presents itself. Wallowing in self-pity and putting the blame entirely on the other person is pointless and unfair. The lesson simply repeats within the next relationship until the penny drops. Relational cords form between two people who fall in love. These cords allow our Auras to communicate with one another and carry information by connecting at the Chakra points. Auric light connects Base Chakra to Base, Naval to Naval, Solar Plexus to Solar Plexus and in the same way continuing to the Crown Chakra. Cords can connect before birth, may be associated with past life experience, can be genetic connections or soul cords that connect with God, and all of these without exception will continue after death. When two people separate, either because the relationship has ended or more sadly through death these cords are often left disconnected and floating aimlessly in space. Disconnected cords cause an intense physical pain and longing at the Chakra points. A healer can see and heal these cords that are connected to deceased people in the astral plane. If left unhealed these cords may take up to seven years to heal. Cords between two people, whether still living or deceased, can be strengthened by visualising a beautiful rose pink colour infusing through the cord. This colour represents unconditional love and encourages forgiveness. This will heal and improve relations between two people and enhance spiritual learning, which in turn compels us to give back to others. Healthy relationships are accepting, loving and forgiving. Until forgiveness is achieved this is just an unobtainable fantasy. Forgiveness takes effort and a truthful look at our own conduct and inner thoughts regarding the loss of a relationship. Love is unconditional and knows no boundaries. The connection that we all possess with God surpasses the expectation of the Ego self and holds the promise of spiritual bliss and pure happiness. Let go of unhappiness and suffering and welcome in the opportunity to learn more about yourself, your lesson and then enjoy the spiritual gifts waiting for you at the end of the journey.]]>