Singles – An Everlasting Love Relationship Appears When You Are Happy and Whole Within

Dear Pamela:
I have been single 6 years and it seems like I’m going to stay that way the rest of my life. I have tried dating, but they all seem to fall apart. Am I destined to be alone or will I ever be happy again? I get depressed because I have a lot of love to give and no one to share it with. Will I ever have that love in my life again?

Bertha

Dear Bertha:

My guides played two songs as I was reading your email; “Don’t Worry Be Happy,” by Bobby McFerrin and the Johnnie Lee song “Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places.” At the same time, I am getting that you have done some personal growth lessons, yet you need to dig deeper into your beliefs and/or issues from all past relationships. My guides said, “Even Daddy.”

My guides added, “Happiness is an inside job.” I understand the human need to be in a relationship after years of being single (I’ve been there, done that); however, the truth is, your Angels and guides have been protecting you from getting involved in a long term relationship because what’s going on inside of you would have attracted an unhealthy love relationship. I’m also getting that your life mate wasn’t ready yet, too. I know it’s hard, but trust in the timing for great love is coming. My guides added – lifetime love. I see you holding hands and traveling along stone roads that look like Europe. Money doesn’t seem like a problem for you two; therefore, that’s one major obstacle not in the way.

I keep hearing the saying over and over, “Happiness is an inside job, so get working!” Which goes back to the Bobby McFerrin song. Do things that make you happy, get involved with activities too, and take a class. I got the vision of you in a cooking class three times that could be to take or teach a cooking class, or take a class for it will get your love life cooking again.

Lastly, I’m not getting to join an online dating site. I hear your sigh of relief, grin. Instead, I’m hearing the Kris Allen song, “Live Like We’re Dying,” in other words, enjoy each moment of your life because you never know when it will be your last.

Dear Pamela,
I ended a 14 year relationship last October, abruptly, but necessary. I have been working on my self-esteem since then, so I can break this cycle of being cheated on. On top of this, I was given the opportunity to work from the ground up on caring for myself by being hospitalized for over a month with a fractured ankle. I would like to know about my future love life. When do you see me meeting him? And what else can I do to attract this great love besides continuing to value and love ME?

Andrea

Dear Andrea:

I know you are not going to like this, although I need to be honest for my guides and I are in agreement that you are not ready for a long term relationship. In fact, that is one of the reasons for your ankle issues to prevent you from jumping into another repeat the pattern relationship. My guides played the song “We’ve Only Just Began’ by the Carpenters as for you working on your personal and spiritual growth. You still need to dive through layers of looking within and your past relationships, including parental figures to break this pattern. The more you work on yourself, the more you will truly value and love yourself. This is not an overnight process, nor does it ever end, this is lifetime work. Even when you are in a committed relationship, you have to continue working on yourself.

A word of warning, I do get that men and women find you attractive, and there are some upcoming opportunities to repeat the pattern. I just got a vision of a coach doing a time out sign, which confirms what I was going to type – continue to be single. Another thing to attract great love is to be completely comfortable with not only who you are, but also being single. To be so happy with your life that you could care less when or if there is a relationship in your future. This is when you will meet The One. I can’t answer your question of when you will meet him. As it really depends on you working on yourself to achieve the right energy vibe to attract a healthy, long term relationship.

Blessings,
Pamela

Please send your love and relationship questions to pamelabellesprit@gmail.com Pamela Cummins is the author of Psychic Wisdom on Love and Relationships, Insights for Singles: Steps to Find Everlasting Love, the FREE eBook Pamela’s Love Collection, and Learn the Secret Language of Dreams. To learn more and get your free gifts, please visit www.pamelacummins.com]]>