A popular question a psychic hears is, “Will my ex and I get back together?”

I wrote an article back in the January 2018 column about how an ex is an ex for a reason.  After that article I received two more questions regarding this topic. These two question showcase how there is always a reason why your partner became an ex. I’m curious to see what my guides and Angels have to say on this topic.

Hi Pamela:

I just broke up with my boyfriend cause of what his friends told him. Will we get back together…? I really love him.

Sylvia

Dear Sylvia:

I was guided to pull a tarot card, the card I pulled is one I really dislike. This card is symbolic for jealousy; however, there’s also a feeling of being stuck in bondage. The interpretation I’m getting for you is that you and your ex’s friends have much jealousy over one another. I got a flash vision of my brother-in-law kicking my leg underneath the table at my family gathering; of course, you wouldn’t understand the vision. When my sister, Jenny, was in the early stages of her relationship with her then boyfriend (decades ago), he and I had jealousy over the attention and the amount of time each other would spend with Jenny. His way of acting out was kicking me in my leg, ow! Obviously, we worked through this for the benefit of all.

Sadly, I’m not picking up that you will resolve this issue with your ex’s friends. His friends are very immature and seem to enjoy stirring up trouble. Remember – birds of a feather flock together, which means everyone involved, including you, have a lot of growing up to do.

My guides are pointing out, “Think of it. You and he didn’t take the time to work through this issue. Rather, you just ended things with him.”

Intuitively, I do see an opportunity of trying the relationship again, if you haven’t already. Although, I heard the Billy Preston song, “Will it go round in circles.” In other words, your relationship will continue in the same pattern if you don’t address your issues. My guides added, “Now, is the time to go within to excel your personal growth.” With that message, my gut feeling was there is a more mature man in your future as you grow more into your power. “The song remains the same,” song by Led Zeppelin is what I heard in regards to your ex not willing to grow.

Blessings,
Pamela

Here is another example:

Dear Pamela,

My ex and I broke up a while back, but we still love each other so much, and talk almost daily. He said he doesn’t want us to get back together, but I feel there is more to our breakup. Will he ever come back and do we have a future?

Monica

Dear Monica:

For this question I pulled a beautiful card of a woman standing underneath a waterfall with her female friends around her. “Now, is the time to focus on yourself, while focusing on the Goddess within,” my guides said. What this means is to work on your personal and spiritual growth. My guides want you to also focus on your life’s work.

A vision of your ex eating cake keeps flashing in my third eye, as Diana Ross and the Supremes sing their song, “You keep me hanging on.” Hopefully this message is clear to you that your ex is perfectly content with the way things are; nonetheless, this current situation is not for your highest good. Instead, it’s time to let him go. As I typed that last sentence, I received a vision of you removing his cake plate.

“Going down the road feeling bad” song by the Grateful Dead is playing while I’m seeing you driving a motorcycle down the road. It will be difficult at first to create space and proceed on your journey without him, yet in time there will be a sense of freedom. You need “you time” to reestablish a sense of self.

In my mind’s eye I’m watching a juggler juggling balls. What that vision is stating is at this time it is undecided whether or not you and your ex will reunite. The future is not written in stone because both of you have free will to determine to stay or go. In the meantime, you must grow within, regardless of the relationships outcome.

Blessings,
Pamela

Pamela Cummins helps her clients take their nighttime messages and turn them into daytime wisdom to accelerate their personal and spiritual growth. She is an author, dream interpreter, and intuitive coach. To learn more about Pamela and grab your free gifts, please visit her websites https://learndreaminterpretation.com/ and https://www.pamelacummins.com/