elainefesseyagonyaunt@bellesprit.com. Question: Dear Agony Aunt, Can you help me please? My mum died on May 2nd of this year.  We had a turmoil relationship. Things turned bad at her funeral. Since then I’ve had nightmare after nightmare of her visiting me and crying. Last night my dream was of her and dad arguing. Dad has also gone. I just want mum to have some peace. How can I help her do this? Thank you, Jeannine, Connecticut  Dear Jeannine, First, may I offer my condolences for your loss. This must be a very difficult time for you. Your dreams are helping you to release the emotions that you have held back during the years of turmoil. Mum has been resting since her passing and has visited you on several occasions. She does not wish you to feel guilty concerning your thoughts and the events at her funeral. You and mum have had a past life together where you were the husband and she the wife. As a childless couple you had many frustrating times and arguments born out of disappointment. In this lifetime, you agreed to be her child but she still held on to some of the past life negativity and neither of you could enjoy the family life you had dreamed of. Help her now by praying that she lets go of any old family issues and help her to be proud of herself. You, too, must forgive yourself of any negative interactions the two of you may have had. Your mum and dad are no longer in turmoil. They need to rest and not worry that you are unhappy. As you release stored emotions through dreams and forgive yourself and Mum for any hard times together, the dreams will ease. Then you will sleep peacefully again. With much love, Agony Aunt]]>