How to deal with a game player and possible infidelity within a relationship.
By Pamela Cummins
Dear Pamela:
Is my husband currently or had been unfaithful?
Marjorie
Dear Marjorie:
What’s coming through strongly to me is deception; however, the energy feels more of an emotional affair. I’m hearing the song, “Only in my dreams.” A lot of this feels more in your husband’s head than reality. Honestly, I’m not getting a yes or no on a physical affair. My guides said, “It doesn’t matter.”
I heard you yelling in my head, “What do you mean it doesn’t matter?” Let me explain – what matters most is he was cheating, whether it was physical or nonphysical. Your marriage needs work as it has become stagnant in the same old, same old. It’s important to give your relationship a chance as I feel this marriage can be saved while evolving into a higher and stronger level. This is not an overnight process; however, I do feel your husband is willing to slowly, but surely… change.
Anger is the vibration that I feel from you that you had about your husband for quite some time deep down inside. It’s time to let go of this, although it must be done in a healthy manner. My guides are adding: you must love yourself first, take control of the things you can, choose whether or not you’re willing to work on your marriage, and if you can accept your husband’s slow pace.
Blessings,
Pamela
Dear Pamela:
Can you please give me information on this man? When we worked together we often had lunch or talked in the evening about business and our personal life. This caused a lot of drama with his wife, who just couldn’t get it through her thick skull that we were only friends. This started to cause problems at work and I requested a work transfer out of state.
Fast forward five years later, he reached out to me on Facebook because his marriage ended. We’ve been talking on the phone, too. Since I live on the West coast and he lives on the East coast, we met in-person twice during business trips.
He recently met another woman and they’re already in a committed relationship! She knows about me, they got into a fight over me, and she demanded that he break off all communication with me. I’m really upset because after he told me this, he unfriended me on Facebook and blocked my number. I thought we had a good friendship. What is going on?
Hurt and Confused
Dear Hurt and Confused:
Honestly, you gave me too much information, I was going to shorten it for the article: however, for some unknown reason my guides told me to include it all. Yet, I kept hearing over and over, I’m a user, baby in place instead of Beck’s song, “I’m a Loser Baby (So Why Don’t You Kill Me.) What this means is this man has used you to bounce off his woes, get valuable insight and compassion from you, and feed his ego with his thinking that you’re in love with him. In other words, he’s a game player with you and other women.
My guides are saying loudly, “STAY AWAY!” He will reach out to you again, with that my guides said, “Close the door. Look, this man is unhealthy. You don’t need that in your life. With friends like that, who needs enemies?”
Please don’t waste your time trying to figure out why he did what he did, instead clear his energy. As I typed that I received a vision of a gigantic stick of sage burning. My guides added, “Clear out your chakras.” If you don’t know how, get an energy healing or Reiki session. Pray or ask your Higher Source to help you release him. Also, reflect on your side of the street: did you ignore the red flags, play games, have romantic feelings, or was this unresolved issues from your childhood or past relationship?
Lastly, now you know the red flags in case someone tries to pull these stunts in the future.
Blessings,
Pamela
Pamela Cummins helps her clients take their nighttime messages and turn them into daytime wisdom to accelerate their personal and spiritual growth. She is an author, dream interpreter, and intuitive coach. To learn more about Pamela and grab your free gifts, please visit her websites https://learndreaminterpretation.com/ and https://www.pamelacummins.com/
