Each month I am entrusted by our readers to answer their problems in my psychic agony aunt page. Now I am delighted to be able to extend the services of myself and my guide to answer problems that have been sent in to the radio show, Kathie’s Coffee Talk which airs each Monday morning from 11:00 am until 1:00 pm EST on the Hey-Z Radio Network. Each week a panel of experts answer listener’s problems and give advice from their wealth of training and life experience. Each month I will be selecting several of our listener’s problems to answer here.
Question one Dear Agony Aunt and radio panel, This is my problem. I have been dating a guy who is my best friend. He is currently getting a divorce and his ex-wife is creating problems for him within his career in the armed forces. I’m starting to panic as he has stated that he wants to just remain friends even though we have been lovers until now. What does he mean by this and how should I handle this situation? Please help, Confused.
Dear confused,
I’m so sorry to hear of your situation. This man feels safe with you but his heart has been hardened by the actions of his ex-wife. His career always will be a priority and his major concerns are money, status and keeping his emotions under control.
You are advised to step away from this situation for a short while to give you both some breathing space. This man has unfinished business with his wife both legal and emotional. He also has some anger to work through. Until this is done stay safe and don’t let him get too close. You are safe and protected at home but don’t mistake boredom for loneliness. Go out with friends frequently and life will become full of fun again.
This man is healing now and you may enjoy dating again but he won’t be ready to make a commitment for some time. Meanwhile there is more fun around than you realize.
Much love,
Agony Aunt.
Question two
Dear Agony Aunt and radio panel.
My mother left my father when I was three years of age. I then only saw him twice at sixteen years old. He is a truck driver and one day he left to go on the road and never returned.
I struggle with feeling unloved. I tend to find men who won’t commit and I am so lonely. How can I move on?
Unloved
Dear Unloved.
It was very brave of you to share your personal problem with our readers and listeners. I know many will relate to this situation and I hope the answer will inspire many to heal and move on.
Feeling rejected by dad is part of a life lesson. You are naturally holding part of yourself back emotionally for fear of another rejection. Because of the law of attraction you will meet partners with the same issue. Both of you refrain from fully participating within the relationship so neither will commit.
To break this cycle of rejection try to walk in your parents shoes. How was their life together? Was your father happy? Look back at his own upbringing. Try to experience his pain and the reasons that motivated him to act as he did. You are a strong person because of this experience.
Try to release resentment and see how love comes to you. You are loved by your guides and Angels and they will never let you down.
Much love,
Agony Aunt
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