elainefesseyagonyaunt@bellesprit.com With the aid of my spirit guide we will do our very best to provide you with sensible, down to earth help. Question Dear Agony Aunt, Two weeks ago, I found out that my husband created a dating profile on a web site for our local community. After confronting him about it, he promised he would stop. Last night, I discovered he is still looking at women from this site. I tried pleading with him to think about our marriage and our young son, and what he is doing to us. However, when I approach him on the subject, he becomes enraged, even locked me out of our house! He never used to be like this. It’s only recently that he began drinking alone. Most of his Army buddies are single and is now saying that he feels weird about marriage. I just don’t understand what is going on with him. I have tried to remain positive and pray for him. I just don’t know how to manifest him to change back into the man I fell in love with. Thank you for your guidance, Sarah Dear Sarah, Your husband is going through an identity crisis and will continue this way until you put the cards on the table. He is not sure where he fits in with family life. His army days are full of male comradeship. He enjoys the routine of army life, yet resents this at home. You almost need to let him go so that he can know what he’s missing and come back to you. He feels the grass is greener on the other side, but will only find out the truth by testing this out. He was kept from maturing emotionally, and until he achieves this, he will be restless and resentful. Once he realizes that he is no longer a young boy and has responsibilities, he will become easier to reason with. Try to bring the fun back into your relationship and he will respond. Time is a healer and he needs some to figure out who he is and what he wants. Much love, Agony Aunt Views:]]>