Can a soul mate can make you happy? Pamela Cummins provides guidance for one of our readers.
Dear Pamela:
When will I meet my soul mate and be happy?
Thank you,
Rhonda
Dear Rhonda:
Right away my guides supplied me with two psychic insights. First, I heard the phrase, “Happiness is an inside job.” The second was a vision of me hanging up the phone astonished after doing a reading for a client when I used to work the psychic lines many moons ago. Here’s the conversation in a nutshell:
During the woman’s half hour reading, she asked question after question about her love interest. Then the company’s message interrupted the call by announcing, “One minute left.” To my astonishment, the woman’s last minute question was, “What is the meaning of my life?” Luckily, my guides channeled through wise information.
Why is this scene from my life coming up in this column? Rhonda, you’re just like that woman – too focused on a man instead of yourself and your life’s purpose. Funny! I’m hearing, “It’s like an addiction” to the tune of the Bangles song, “Walk Like an Egyptian.” Focusing on a man takes the pressure off at recognizing your fears, discovering your life’s mission, and working through your blocks and issues.
In my third eye, I see an index finger pointing, which means when you point the finger at someone, you have three pointing back at yourself. Therefore, stop looking outside yourself for happiness. Here’s a little secret, whoa! Interrupted by a vision of you sitting on the floor changing a baby’s diaper in a messy house, another toddler is screaming, while your drunk husband is passed out on the floor! This is symbolic for the secret that you will attract a man at the personal/growth level you’re at. Perhaps there was alcoholism in your family of origin or your self-esteem is low? My guides are chanting, “Work, work, work, on yourself. Work, work, work, on yourself.” Do that to avoid being in an awful relationship.
Now, I’m hearing, “Go on a He-Dox.” This means to detox from men, including your ex, who feels like he’s still in the picture. Seriously, take at the bare minimum six months off from dating. During this time focus on yourself and learn to love yourself. Receiving another vision of you in a bathtub worrying about if he is going to call you. The next vision is of you in a bubble bath, raising your leg up in the air to wash it, then you close your eyes to relax. Here’s the interpretation of the second vision – you need to learn to stand on your own, relax about meeting a romantic partner, and enjoy your singlehood.
Feeling an aunt around you, she is saying, “Return to school for the training you need to get ahead in life. You know what’s in your heart, go for it.”
To answer your question; be joyful now! Enjoy each moment of the day! Be grateful for this gift of life! Reach your highest potential! Then you will meet the one.
Honestly, Rhonda, your soulmate also has some work on himself to do. It’s not time for you to meet each other yet. Hearing, “Soon, very soon, when you both are ready for a love of a lifetime.”
Blessings,
Pamela
Pamela Cummins helps her clients take their nighttime messages and turn them into daytime wisdom to accelerate their personal and spiritual growth. She is an author, dream interpreter, and intuitive coach. To learn more about Pamela and grab your free gifts, please visit her websites https://learndreaminterpretation.com/ and https://www.pamelacummins.com/