Our Bellesprit Diamond Psychics and Healers answer your questions each month. Receive guidance from many different perspectives and connect with one of our Diamonds who best resonates with you. Send your questions to belle@bellesprit.com.  If you prefer, you can request your name to be listed in the column as anonymous; however we will need your name for our psychics to connect with your energy. Visit our Diamond Psychics and Healers Listing: http://bellesprit.com/bellesprit-diamond-psychic-and-healer-listing Question: From Elaine: My boyfriend and I recently split after eighteen months of an internet relationship. Can you see a reconciliation, or should I simply move on. ? He lives in Mexico and I am in the UK where he was planning to move to in 2014. Many thanks to all you talented psychics. Janét Bowerman: Dear Elaine – Thank you for writing – I’m being told it is time for the truth to be revealed, and all isn’t what it seems. I’m being told this person makes many promises he never intends on keeping. I’m feeling each time it gets closer for him to follow-through, he provides a reason as to why he cannot at that time – even breaking up with you. I feel it is possible for a reconciliation, but the relationship will never be a totally satisfying for you and I feel you will always wonder if he can be trusted to follow through with what he says.. While spirit is not allowing me to tell you what to do in this situation – I’m being guided to say your intuition is already telling you what is best – follow it. – Peace, Love & Light Kimberly Wilson Ward: He is a dreamer and creates fantasies in his head and that is where he lives them. When reality sets in, he runs to the next fantasy and will find excuses for why he cannot stay in the present. He is filled with fear of rejection and will always reject first in order to not get hurt. I also get that he does not have the ‘means’ in which to make a move of this order and as time neared, a break-up gave him an out without having to own up to the false fantasy. He is off to the next conquest. However, I do feel you may hear from him again. Guides are saying be cautious. Many Blessings to you. Pamela Cummins: I heard move on and the theme song from the Jefferson’s, “Moving on up.” I heard French man. I feel there is someone new in store for you. Maybe he is French, cooks French foods, or last name is French. I am also getting a vision of a man in a suit holding flowers for you. That is a symbol for a man who is clean (works on his issues), responsible, and wants a committed relationships with you. Yay! Jennifer Sieck: I feel this is the right move and while painful in the here and now, will help you draw someone who is a much better fit into your life. Someone who truly wants to be there for the long haul. I feel this new man will make it clear and you won’t be the one feeling uncomfortable and trying to keep the door open. I feel like the ex-boyfriend kept you off kilter often and you lost a lot of power that way. The new guy is coming between January and February–that time frame, by march for sure…The way to be prepared for him – love yourself more clearly and powerfully so you can heal and be ready to be on the receiving end this time! And friendship first.  All good wishes to you…imagine being there and feel your heart opening. Christa L Urban: I feel this was a transition and growth experience. I get that spring is going to be a new adventure for you. There will be the right relationship for you. Regroup your energies in the New Year, it will shift for you.   Denise Divine D: Although I feel there may be communications from now until the end of January, I do feel that the relationship will have met its final fork in the road in the New Year. The relationship has provided a stepping stone for what you both truly need and want from a partner. The lessons will be applied as you both move forward into the spring and onward. I feel your next partner will be spiritual and meant to be a match for you. The emotional responsibilities were too much for him at this time. I feel the future will be guiding you both to where you need to be, as well as who you need to be with. Allow yourself to go with your spiritual flow. Blessings will come from the Heaven’s down rather than the Ground up. Put your energy into yourself at this time Elaine. Mystic Mandy: Internet relationships can be hard, but they are also safe at the same time for those who fear commitment or have secrets to hide. I get secrets between you and this current guy and mixed signals. It says to back off at this time. He is thinking of you, but is afraid he hasn’t got enough to offer. Says communication happens in a while, but at the same time, it says a deception is revealed. You show codependency and liking the ones that want to sweep you up too fast. You want to be swept off your feet, but you more need to work on grounding yourself. Try to find someone in person who is real life rather than fantasy. The problem is these kinds of relationships alter the brain chemistry and it makes it hard to go back into liking a normal and settled type of person. It creates an addiction to the romance, love/hate, and the high of waiting on someone or wondering if you’ve been rejected etc. You were discussing moving with a new guy too. Says to beware of relationships that will move too fast, give mixed signals, and of being fed false information. Always go with the facts and actions before words, signs, what psychics or others tell you, or you feel you “pick up.” Regularly visualize yourself in a committed relationship with someone in person, stable and who allows a relationship to develop slowly so that your energy can get used to something grounded. Erin Sights: HI Elaine, I am getting that your internet relationship is a man on the move, not just from one country to another. He seems to move from one relationship to another. When the relationship gets too strong, it ends. There is saying “distance makes the heart grow fonder” but in this cause I am getting “distance is safe.” This man does like the interaction, but there is hesitation with regards to moving closer. At this moment, if you are looking for in person committed relationship it would suggest to move on. Ending a connection through a laptop is only a click away, and in person it means having to relocate. Fear of commitment seems to be the issue here on both sides. Is it not? Perhaps before moving on to another relationship, it would be best to look inward to see why.]]>