http://bellesprit.com/bellesprit-diamond-psychic-and-healer-listing Question: Lately I’ve been questioning my marriage and have been really confused as to how I feel anymore. I don’t wanna make any rash decisions because of our children, so I guess what I’m asking is if my marriage will last. Thanks
Pamela Cummins: My guides are saying that is up to you on your question, will my marriage last. You have free will. I am hearing a song lyric “You got to stand for something or you’re gonna fall.” You have two paths to choose to go down. The 1st is to stay with him, not gonna lie it is filled with challenges. The only way he will slowly change is if you change how you react to him. It is a long road. The 2nd choice is to leave him. Emotionally it is a little easier and eventually you will enjoy your independence. Physically (money & material wise) it is harder. I am getting the song lyric”One more try”, which means to me you need to take the opportunity to give your marriage all you got before making the final decision.
Elaine Fessey: Your marriage is not in as bad a state as you think. There are things happening in your and your husbands lives that could be worked out with honest and open communication. There could be a long and happy relationship emmerging from this testing time. My advice is to keep talking and try and walk in each others shoes. To give up now could be a sad loss as the future looks brighter once this time has been worked through.
Leigh Cohen Wyatt: What I get is the submission you have been giving into your husband instead of finding your true independence. Remembering the positive side to any relationship is to be individuals within the unity of the marriage…it feels as if you might need to reclaim yours and looking into how to respond to his actions instead of reacting. Take a moment and reflect at what you two have and remember what your needs and wants are before jumping into any changes right now. This can be saved but in all honesty it will be hard work and the work right now starts with you. Heal, Live and Love yourself first…as you are a beautiful person and Spirit tells me I needed to remind you of this. Take baby steps and focus on the journey in order to achieve your desired outcome and not a quick resolution.
Question:
What has to be done to fix “what is broken” in my home? The peaceful home I once had seems to be long gone and I fear the breakage continues.
Thanks –
Elaine Fessey: The atmosphere in one area is heavy and angry. Place Rose Quartz crystals in this space and cleanse with a Frankinsence oil burner or smudge stick. Try to forgive the past as it feels as if history is repeating. Unconditional love is the key to feeling better about yourself and close relationships.
Pamela Cummins: I’m hearing that it is an inside job. That means that you need to work on your inner self in order to fix the outer. I see you with a tool belt doing repairs. My guides are saying you can have peace in chaos.
Jennifer Shackford: I am hearing from your angels that you must release the past to them and all the heartache and hurt behind it. By releasing your past to the angels you make way for positive changes to occur in your life. I know you can’t forget the past, but you can forgive. And the forgiveness must begin with yourself. When this occurs you also make way for new thought patterns to develop, new positive thought patterns. Love yourself and all your achievements. Proclaim it everyday outloud, “I love you and I am proud of you!” Once you forgive yourself and love yourself again, everything will fall into place. I do feel that in the late fall, things will start turning around for you. Many blessings to you!
Question:
What’s in my near future as far as work since I am out right now?
Janie
Pamela Cummins: It feels like fall time when you will be comfortable in the work area. You need to follow that so called “little dream” and manifest it to a big dream. Don’t listen to the negative voices and people who say you can’t do it. I also see little jobs bring in money before fall arrives.
Donna Cantone: My angels are telling me that the love you show your family and friends is at the center of your life purpose.You are an integral part of your family and you love, support and pray for others too. I am hearing ‘play’ and ‘get out in nature.’ It could be that you need to take a break and spend more time with your family right now. I am also hearing ‘forgiveness’. Whom do you need to forgive to move forward? I don’t feel a new job will come until mid to late fall. In the meantime enjoy yourself with quality time for loved ones and know that you will be divinely guided to that job when it’s time.
Elaine Fessey: There are a few months where you will have to time to explore other areas of your life. These are things that have been a little neglected in the past. More work will come at a time when you are more relaxed and fulfilled.
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