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From Pamela: Can you help me find my wedding ring? It’s been missing since December 9th.

Diane Hiller: I always use the St. Antony Prayer. I have never had it fail. Say, ‘St. Anthony, St. Anthony look around, something is lost that must be found. Please find (name ring).”  Say it out loud three times each day. Jacqueline Lunger: I am shown the ring slipping off your hand into an opening inside your home. Check your left side chair cushions, carefully. Pamela Cummins: LOL I get that you will find it before the February issue comes out! Vaishali Nikhade: Hi Pamela, I asked where your wedding ring is – I get the main clue comes from either a shiny object or is associated with night or something to do with night – something where you put in a key at night – does a Key ring a bell in any manner? Also it is showing the object at a height – more like windows, doors or anything that is either far/distant or on top. Good luck! Question

From Anonymous: My question is regarding my granddaughter. Her Mom is not a nice person and is causing all kinds of family problems. She is trying to keep our Granddaughter from all of us and I just want to make sure she will be OK and if things will work out for all of us involved?

Jacqueline Lunger: I feel your situation and concerns. You can only control yourself, your own thoughts, and communications. Attempt to be kind and nonjudgmental with the child’s mother if you can. It is natural for her to want to shield her daughter from negative talk about her. Pamela Cummins: I heard, “Yes, things will work out, for this is her karma.” What my guides mean is this is a lesson for your granddaughter to help her to grow through this family drama. It is also meant for the soul growth of all involved. Pray and trust the process. Jesse Ann Nichols George: I can very much relate to your situation. I sense that your granddaughter will be ok. She seems to be a wise soul that sees through what is happening; and is very good at keeping her balance. She and her mother are working out soul things with each other, and she is here as a catalyst to show her mother a different way. She is very strong at being able to keep her balance amongst turmoil. Your granddaughter does think about you. How about a shift in perception? Her mom is not the “evil” person – but it is her acts that are the challenge here for so many. Realize these acts stem from deep-rooted fear which leads her to want to control everything and everyone. Keep sending her love to break through her fears and into her true loving soul self. Keep seeing her real soul self, which is not the acts she has done. The times that we are in will not allow her to stay in this space of fear and control; and her addiction to power will likely be broken in this year. It can still take quite a bit of time for the bigger shifts, but I sense “mom” having a breakdown before having a breakthrough. This is likely to lead your granddaughter to spend much more time with you, or even to temporarily be living with you. Elaine Fessey: Dear friend, I feel you are having a big misunderstanding with your granddaughter’s mother. Try to see her in a new light. She needs help as much as we all do. Some sensible communication between you can help here. She feels the world is against her so the only reaction she knows is to fight back. Your granddaughter has her own mind and has come into the world to reconcile family misunderstandings. Send love to them both and have faith that all will come right in your granddaughter’s life in the future. Much love. DC Love: Yes, I too sense that your granddaughter will be OK. Please watch that you are not shouldering too much of the burden for caring for the relationships of your family becoming a little bit too much for you to bear. She and her mom will work things out, you do so much… please watch your stress level. Figure out what is most important for you to become involved in. Vaishali Nikhade: You are asking two questions: first one is will your granddaughter be ok. For this question, I get that she will be very happy and loved in both the homes that she is associated with – her heart is torn in between two homes. She loves her homes. As far as things working out, yes, you guys will be connected as a family and there will be happiness and fulfillment. Question

From Angela: My son is a heroin addict. He stopped using a little over a year ago and now has a job and doing okay. Not well, because he has not gotten any help for his anger and depression. What can you tell me about his future? I know he is here for a reason. What is it?

Pamela Cummins: I heard the song lyric, ‘Standing on shaky ground.” Your son does need outside help, for it is easy for him to fall back into addiction. I’m not getting what his future is because it could change depending on whether he chooses to use or not use – it is a day by day choice. My guides said, “He is here to overcome his addictive behavior from many lifetimes. You are here to be compassionate, learn to love him unconditionally, and how not to control.” I will keep you both in my prayers. Jacqueline Lunger: I am impressed that your concern for him is genuine and he does need to reach out to established helpers. You cannot be his supporter, get yourself the help you need to keep it together during his recovery, please. He is capable of wellness and maturity in time. Jesse Ann Nichols George: Hi Angela – this addiction is coming to an end this year and the remnants of anger and depression will be clearing out this year as well. Although he stopped using over a year ago, it can take quite a bit of time for all the emotional detoxing to happen, especially since there are little waves of the drugs still releasing from his system. He will get help this year for this because soulfully, he is ready to start a fresh path which will come into motion more towards the end of this year and early next year. The anger and depression are coming from repressed memories; things that were too painful for him to deal with early in life. This is something that would have been triggered between the ages of 3-5 years old. Without knowing his full name it is hard for me to break into more details of his purpose. However, I sense some of this is part of a generational factor of addicts that are going through this to show us as a collective where we need to shift our course and the results of our decisions. They are closing out old and reckless ways to make room for a greater light. This generation has carried a heavy burden of living the consequences of decisions made through ancestry as many as 4 generations back. I also sense he is one of the starseed groupings that feel into the belief that he had to keep “using” or “getting into trouble” in order to find a group that he could fit into or that could “understand” him. He has often felt very misunderstood and as if he couldn’t really talk to most people – even if you kept the doors open. The usage, depression, and anger are catalysts to connection. He is now learning “healthy” ways to connect and find acceptance. He will break through this and likely be a catalyst for helping others find acceptance. Elaine Fessey: Hello Angela, firstly I would like you to remember that depression and anger are stages of the healing process and hopefully your son will be able to pass through them soon. If not, try and get him to talk to a counselor or someone he trusts. He has three more positive steps to take with his healing. He must continue to trust his own decisions and to feel confident enough to push for a promotion at work. He must also keep a check on his physical and emotional health. Encourage him to have strength and confidence when he lacks faith. He has climbed a mountain and is doing really well. His future is not in drugs or failure. He will learn so much and may go on to help other addicts with his wisdom. Much love. DC Love: Hi Angela, you and your son need to focus on the positive. Any lingering emotional issues need to be dealt with so he can move forward. Please be careful that you don’t contribute to any feelings of fear or anxiety. Try to keep the lines of communication open. He has to explore what needs to be healed, physical and emotional states are intertwined. It would be beneficial for him to find a counselor to help him cope with his current health. I am also feeling there is some issues with the stomach. I am seeing there are dental issues, as well. A friend may help with new methods of healing… be open to alternative treatments. I feel his health will be at a fluctuating stage and he may be a little restless. I do feel he’s frazzled and a little exhausted. He’s going to survive the stressful times, he may end up having a few hospital visits. I feel a family member is going to help during these times. Please call upon the angels for divine intervention and Guidance. Stay positive. Wishing you and him all the best. Question

From Melinda? Are my finances going to get better?

Jacqueline Lunger: Hello Melinda, I see February bringing you a pause, breathing room during which you can design a more manageable plan to live with. Avoid the tendency to try saving others at your own peril. Pamela Cummins: My guides said, “Work it, Baby!” That means two things. The first is to keep working. The second is to do positive thinking/manifestation, but also work through your fears and negative beliefs regarding money. I highly recommend Bob Wheeler’s book, The Money Nerve, or another workbook to help you feel strong and grounded with money. Jesse Ann Nichols George: I am seeing 2 pieces here Melinda – you are naturally successful, however, in the past you have taken that for granted and perhaps spent a little recklessly with what you had. I am seeing success coming to you in April and May, mostly May, and that success is dependent on you acting from the energy of lessons learned in April. What this means is that you will have a good opportunity in April or money will come to you at that time and if you use that money wisely, (i.e. – have fun, but also pay bills off first and set a little aside for a rainy day) then you will increase your abundance more in May. Elaine Fessey: Hello Melinda, Work, work and more work is the key to success for you. Nothing has ever come easy and hard work is part of your work ethic. Just have faith that this will pay off. You have one surge forward that excites you. Don’t rest with this as there is even more to come. It will be the difference between moderate success and greater fortunes, so you must keep at it. Good luck!!! DC Love: Hi Melinda, you are going to have a good financial year. But make sure that you plan for the future. Make sure that you are cautious… don’t involve yourself in situations that end up costing you a lot of money. Caution will pay off. I do see you making a couple of difficult choices in relation to your financial health. Know that not everything is worth making a few dollars, your integrity is worth more. Please think positively about your finances, if you spend all your time worrying… you’re going to send out negative energy which will, in turn, cause your fears to be realized. You still have to do the work to make your situation better, but changing your mindset can go a long way to making things better. Vaishali Nikhade: Hi Melinda, for this question there was no time-frame, so I asked if they will get better over the next three months. What I get is, right now, there is a huge problem and confusion over some of your assets or savings and maybe even some issues related to a parent or a boss at work. As things settle down, they will clear up – there is the possibility of more income coming in through either some work, or at least a growth in income. Just wait for the storm to pass and all of your burdens, pain and confusion will go away – good luck Do you have a question you would like to have answered? Submit your question to our Bellesprit Diamond Psychics and Healers to belle@bellesprit.com to appear in our next month’s column. Views:]]>