Our Diamond Wisdom column is for YOU to submit one question to be answered here FREE each month by one or more of our talented psychics and healers. Receive guidance from many different perspectives and connect with one of our Diamonds who best resonates with you. Send your questions to belle@bellesprit.com.  If you prefer, you can request your name to be listed in the column as anonymous; however we will need your name for our psychics to connect with your energy. Visit our Diamond Psychics and Healers Listing: http://bellesprit.com/bellesprit-diamond-psychic-and-healer-listing. From Melinda: I always feel someone with me, watching me. Can you please tell me who it is watching over me? Man or woman and what their name is. Thank you. Sandy Helms: Melinda – I have a strong sense of a male presence. From the cards, I see that he was a quiet man of deep reflection. Have you ever heard the expression that still waters run deep? This could be about him. Unfortunately, I haven’t been able to clearly get his name, I believe it starts with a “J.”  I am getting John or Jeff. I hope this helps. Christa Urban: I am picking up that you have several energies around you. One feels definitely male the other more a spirit that is neutral. I feel like you have a guardian spirit and teacher spirit energy that you can work with. Use Meditation to quiet your mind and then ask them to tell you and show you what they are there for. Ask for yourself to be surrounded with light and protection that you will not bring any negative spirit energy in. I am also guided to tell you follow your gut, you have been getting signs and messages but are unsure so you let them pass. Pamela Cummins: I heard Angels, I feel 2 huge Angels around you. Archangel Raphael works with you a lot. He is the Angel of healing. I am also feeling a grandmother figure. I see a circle around you of light beings, like a pow wow.   Cris Avery Cole: Melinda, I feel an older woman, an energy like a mother, grandmother, great grandmother. She is giving me an “S” name, almost like Sylvia, Sylvana. I would suggest that when you are going to sleep at night, ask for her to show herself to you in your dream, or give you some sign of who she is in your dream and ask to remember it when you wake. Best wishes. Namaste. Elaine Fessey: Hello Melinda, I feel you are being closely guarded by a female figure who is possibly a grandmother figure and has always been concerned for your welfare. This energy will feel stronger at times when you are worried or concerned about something. Always ask for help at these times and she will send you signs and guidance. She wishes you to accept the love she is sending you. Mystic Mandy: I feel both an older woman and a male Native American. The woman has a very mother-like energy. She wants you to value yourself. Something you are hanging onto you need to let go of (a dark haired man).   Kimberly Wilson Ward: There are both male and female. The male feels ‘fatherly’ in nature. The female energy is much more subtle and feels like she is a guardian and only comes forward during times of emotional turmoil to comfort you. The male energy is a strong guide and stays close to you. I see him sometimes putting his hands behind you to coax you forward when you are fearing doing something. He is your strength. I got the name Charles. Blessings Kimberly From Janice: My ex-husband left me for a woman he barely knew after 22 years of marriage and married her a year later. Due to her legal background, there has been 2 years of absolute hell because we can’t settle anything without her influence. Now I’m in trouble for “harassing!” him about signing a quit claim on our house and refusing to give up half his retirement. I just want them to leave me alone. Help. Pamela Cummins: I am hearing Stevie Nicks sing, “Nothing ever changes, no it doesn’t” and it is a give and take. You are angry, but you will need to make some compromises in order for this to be settled or it could go on for longer. I am hearing the song lyric, “Give a little bit” so give in a little. My guides are also reminding you that the best revenge is a life well lived. Kimberley Simon: You are “stuck” in the past and there are cords to release before you can heal and move forward in grace, as you’re meant to. The anger and attachment to how this should be settled is really immersing you in hell on earth. This won’t be easy for you, but you must stop trying to negotiate with him, stop labeling and judging her (and him), and stop expending your energy on what you think is “right” as an outcome. Loosen it up so you can free yourself from the conflict. You are now carrying the hell internally right in your body which can create illness, depression, fear and really keeps you from living as you’re meant to live. Not easy, so get the supports/healing you need to move this. You need to leave the legal steps/processes in your lawyer’s hands… and expect that s/he is doing his/her best for you, as the universe is orchestrating it for the highest good of all. That is your lawyer’s job; it is NOT yours to handle. Give up the idea that your ex should support you and share his retirement funds with you, despite the 22 years. You’re putting your life on hold and your own gifts, talent, skill and what you could be sharing with others is capped hugely. Release the past ASAP and open your eyes to your own new path. You get to explore and create your own life; one that supports who you are fully. Stop the fighting (internally). Stop carrying this energy. Not easy, but for your own sake, body/mind and spirit, breathe deep and do what you can to release this one step at a time. It won’t stay this way but can’t improve until you do. Elaine Fessey: Dear Janice, love and forgiveness is the only way forward. So much negativity on either side is halting progress. If you make a gesture to meet them halfway a solution will be closer. Best wishes.   Kimberly Wilson Ward: Janice, you have legal rights and can leave the communication to the attorneys. Separate yourself from him emotionally and move on. I feel that there are more positive things on the horizon for you as soon as you can let go of this part of your life. Find your way through the grieving process of this loss. There is no race or time limit in getting things settled, they will settle in their own time. Let the attorney do that part and do not let these two reckless people hold you back from living your life. On to better things Janice…Sometimes the grass is greener on the other side. Blessings Kimberly Belle Salisbury: I am reminded of my own divorce from an abusive alcoholic husband. When I finally left him, I refused to divorce him because I was sure he was going to die an alcoholic death. My name was on his life insurance and I felt he ‘owed’ me due to his abuse. Then one day while doing a meditation, I saw myself in the spirit world reviewing  what I needed to accomplish in this lifetime. A soul approached me from behind looking over my shoulder at my list. This soul offered to help me with a few things on my list during this incarnation. I turned to the soul in total awe and admiration at their offer. Suddenly, the soul’s face emerged to that of my alcoholic husband. At that time I realized that my husband was merely playing a role for me in this lifetime in our agreement to help me gain the lessons I had agreed to experience. I promptly filed for my divorce and released him with love and gratitude for what he taught me. From Audrey: Is the one element I am waiting for in order to begin my new journey coming soon? Belle Salisbury: Audrey, the feeling I get is what are you waiting for? All will fall into place in due time. You have enough to begin your journey and move forward with your plans/dreams. Stop waiting for all the pieces and begin with the ones you already have. Staci Wells: A breakthrough is coming very soon but it may not be in the exact form you desire.   Pamela Cummins: I am seeing a Boy Scout uniform which represents being prepared. So continue to do your preparation. I am hearing the song lyric, “Any day now.” I see a foot raised in the air ready to be put on the ground. Soon very soon my guides are saying. Cris Avery Cole: Audrey, not sure you would consider this “soon,” but my guides are telling me by March. And it is not how you are hoping or thinking it will come, but it will. I also want to add Spirit is showing me a tall, thin man with a dark mustache. Best wishes. Namaste! Kimberley Simon: There is no “one” element. It’s a mix of your natural gift, skills, and knowledge coming full circle for you in unexpected ways, if you are open to see/hear/sense the clues. You already have what you need… one step at a time will open up more for you as you take inspired action. This will also surprise you with unexpected, synchronistic opportunities, connections and resources. No waiting… be/do now with faith and no attachment to “proof” or certainty. Look for clues and do your part. Faith and curiosity are required. Elaine Fessey: Hello Audrey, my message is there is nothing to stop you. Life cannot change until you do. Make a start and watch the rest slot into place. Good luck!!!   Kimberly Wilson Ward: What you are waiting for is you. You need to pick up your foot and take a step. It does not matter which direction, just take that first step. Once you start stepping in a direction, magic starts to happen, people, places and things will appear. Pay attention to the subtle signs within your everyday life and keep stepping and moving forward. Take nothing for granted, it all has a purpose. Blessings Kimberly From Melissa: After the sudden loss of a spouse and a difficult battle with breast cancer, will I ever find peace of mind and lose this fear which overwhelms my heart and soul each day of my life? Christa Urban: My guides share that you are being hard on yourself. Let the grief process flow and roll off in layers. This anxiety and fear was cultivated over a lifetime brought to bear in your recent situation. Slow baby steps and release work. Use affirmations…such as ‘I am free from fear based thought.’ I see that your energy will lighten. Take time to breathe and allow yourself to cry if needed. This energy needs to move through you and will. I send you a blast of healing energy. Be Blessed Elaine Fessey: Dear Melissa, I’m sending out love to you. So many harsh tests tells me you are a strong lady who has advanced along her spiritual path. Try to meditate to clear your heart chakra. Life does not always have to be hard and better times will come. Allow your positive energy to clear away the blocks of fear and anxiety. Much love. Kimberly Wilson Ward: Melissa, you need to put yourself into a ‘physical’ mode to assist you in taking your ‘mind’ away from your worries. I got a visual of you working with your hands in a crafty way. Put your heart into your work with purpose. I also see you doing this with other people, this tells me you spend too much time alone. Finding a group would benefit you so much. Blessings Kimberly Kimberley Simon: I don’t think you had the time you needed to grieve the loss of your spouse, Melissa, and living with the details of cancer and treatments is all consuming without such heartbreak. I want you to know that peace, calm and courage do live in you, right now, and you do not need to wait to access that. It’s a matter of accessing that energy field that is alive and well right in your body and bringing that energy and focus into your everyday life, one step at a time. This is not always easy but so much simpler than being controlled by fear. Find a counselor, healer or mentor who knows how to help you bridge your internal world to your daily activity and who works with source/divine energy and has the capacity to help you access your inner voice’s guidance so you can implement steps that nurture you at this time. You MUST begin by doing at least one thing daily that is just for you because you and your body/spirit are screaming for peace, and your mind for quiet. A practice to begin: Put your right hand over your heart on your body and your left hand on your lower belly. Breathe DEEPLY 5 times in and out or until you feel a shift… deep belly-expanding breaths. This allows your mind to still and gives your heart and belly a chance to begin communicating to each other (to free up your inner voice to inform your mind). It also calms the adrenal system which is in overdrive. Use this practice OFTEN each day. My heart goes out to you and you sparked me to write more about this in my Bellesprit column for November. Read it for more if this resonates with you. You are not alone and you deserve what your heart is crying out for. Much love to you, Melissa. Pamela Cummins: I just heard the song lyrics, “Time waits for no one and it won’t wait for me.” My guides are adding give it time, stay in the day, and ask the Angels to heal your heart and put peace in your soul.]]>