Our readers submit questions for our Bellesprit Diamond Psychics and Healers each month. Read their questions and our psychics responses here!
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From Alison: Is Asa the man I am supposed to be with? I am changing my world to be with him and I’m looking for reassurance.
Elaine Good: Hello Alison, I feel Asa is a strong, steady secure type who won’t let you down. Some traditions or cultural issues may take some adjusting to. You both have a mutual respect which helps build a stronger bond. Change any expectations you have of how things will be and you will be pleasantly surprised. Good luck and be happy!
Diane Hiller: This is a huge decision. I feel conflict/control. If you are not sure in your body and mind. Pay attention to that.
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From Amber – I am currently pregnant and not sure who the father is. My husband Joel had an affair on me over a year ago so we are going through a divorce, but we still have feelings for each other and slept together unplanned around the same time I conceived.
I also had sex with my best friend Martin. Could you help me and tell me if it’s Martin’s baby? He is being cruel and it will destroy my life if it’s his baby. He does not want any part of the baby and has threatened me.
If the baby is my husband’s, I would have conceived on my mother’s birthday who wants nothing more for me than to be back with him.
Please help thank you!
Kate Lanxner: It sounds pretty complex. I may need a week to sort it out. Maybe we could talk. Martin does not sound like a best friend anymore. Seek help if you don’t feel safe!
Diane Hiller: I would not read this as a psychic. You should get a paternity test. I am not sure at what point they can do them in utero. It is clear you should stay away from Martin no matter what the child’s paternity. I do not know your religious beliefs; it appears you are keeping the baby? If you are open to options you should go discuss this with someone. There are too many factors here. I think you need to determine paternity medically and then see a therapist and sort it all out. I wish you the best.
Elaine Good: Hello Amber. From a spiritual point of view, you need to know that an incoming soul, reincarnating into a physical body has chosen its parents already. The purpose of this is to learn life lessons and evolve spiritually. Whichever man is the father will have already been chosen by the baby coming into the world. Try and get some support from a counselor and don’t allow yourself to be bullied or threatened. That’s not what friendship or love is all about! With love. Elaine.
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From anonymous: My question is how is my relationship with Jason going to turn out overall in the end. His DOB 4/27/76, Mine 3/20/71. I pray all will be good. Thank you.
Diane Hiller: The energy looks like there is a person from the past involved with one or both you and/ or a past breakup has caused some serious anger/control/ trust issues. It looks like there are too many outside influences effecting this relationship. I see a new person coming in for one or both of you that changes the situation. I do not see this as long term. There are too many problems. Sorry.
Elaine Good: Dear friend, this relationship feels like it’s gone a little stale. You are both hanging on to something that you’ve both outgrown. If you move on in a kind way you will free both of you. Then new energy will take you both in completely different directions! It’s been a healing time together but I don’t see this as long term. Good luck!
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From Chris – Has this woman, Melissa 07/15/81, moved on from me, Chris 01/05/83? Why is the universe delivering no communication between the both of us for over a year now?
Diane Hiller: I feel she is involved with someone else and it would have been kind to have told you this. You have someone new coming in 3-6 months. I feel you need to release her energy.
Elaine Good: Hello Chris. Yes, Melissa seems to be preoccupied with her own life. I feel she has had a difficult time and has been dealing with it. Try and move on yourself. You are holding back all areas of your life while you put your emotions on hold. There are some fantastic times ahead for you if you can change your expectation here and stop the cycle of pain. Good luck!
Jennifer Sieck: The universe is giving you both space to heal and find partners who are a better fit. Do those things you love and let whatever is falling away, fall
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From: Raman Kumar – I am 25 yr. old man. I have been having bipolar depression for the last 5 years and taking anti-depressant medication ever since. How/what crystals would help me in coping with depression? Thanks in advance.
Diane Hiller: Hello Raman, I am a psychic and also A LCSW. As I recall, antidepressants can make bipolar worse, I would get another opinion. If you are bipolar there are many kinds, rapid and slow cycling. Bi-polar infers mood swings, not just depression. This is a genetic condition. You may be able to manage with meds and exercise.
As for the crystals you need to stabilize your energy first. You can’t fix a medical issue with crystals. There is a new book by an MD called “Own Your Self,” I have not yet read it. Far different approach regarding depression. Given that 30% of diagnosed cases are deemed treatment resistant, something needs to give. Best of luck.
Elaine Good: Hello Raman, always follow your doctor’s advice. I personally use a clear quartz point crystal. Wash it and charge in sunlight or moonlight. Then hold it and program it with the intention to help with your mood. Good luck!
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From Sima Zamani: Hi, I have one request you to help me. I loved a person three years but he does not know me and he doesn’t have any information about me; he is celebrity. I did study Louise Hay’s healing book, and Katrin Pander’s book but l do not believe in letters to angels. I need your help deeply to giving me a solution. Please help me if you can. Thank you!
Elaine Good: Hello Sima. The love feelings you have for this celebrity are a fantasy. Perhaps they mask an unresolved issue in your own life. Is something missing? I feel self-healing will help you to love yourself first and enhance your self-esteem. Ask your guides and angels to help you. Sending love to you.
Diane Hiller: I agree with Elaine Good, if this has an obsessive quality to you may need to seek professional help. The situation is just showing you what needs to be healed in your own life.
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