By Derek Lotts
There is no doubt that the world today is hectic and turbulent, disruptions can strike you from anywhere, and people are generally more stressed out, agitated and prone to creating problems.
However, that shouldn’t stop you from preserving your common sense amidst all of that chaos. You don’t necessarily need a Zen garden to have your own purposely fashioned personal space where you can find a little peace of mind. Yes, backyards and any other access to nature nearby will definitely help put your soul at ease, but some homes do not have that luxury, so you might as well resort to different approaches to making your living space a haven.
Now, the first that that you should know is that inner peace is a state. It is more about being than actually doing. It is about leaning towards things and embracing them rather than attempting to resist them. It is about being focused, vigilant and present, not materialistic and money-hungry. This state is essential for our well-being, both mental and physical, and it can do wonders for our confidence, relationships, energy, and mood. Sometimes it is important to shift our perception of ourselves in order to create an environment suited for inner peace to flourish. Once the shift is made, everything else is all about practicing the actions that help us sustain this condition.
Deal with issues
Unfinished things can pile up and cause many conscious and subconscious problems. Yes, we are all tied to our obligations, but having more input than output can be severely tiring and frustrating. Should you leave your issues unresolved, it will sap you of your energy and create a greater burden than you can carry. Don’t leave unfinished projects around the house. There is a reason why the situation seems hopeless. Life ain’t easy, but it doesn’t have to be hard either.
Surrendering
To all the fighters out there this can be a difficult task, but it can drastically prevent your hair from going grey. Of course, being persistent and a survivor are excellent traits to have, but some things simply cannot be won or conquered, so it is better to let things slide, rather than to struggle with unacceptance. Such resistance can tremendously block your creativity and zeal, so try to focus on finding solutions, instead of dwelling on the cause of your problems.
Taking responsibility
You are the sole proprietor of your behaviour so you might as well take full responsibility for it. Being calm and reasonable is one thing, but knowing when to stand behind your actions is another. Trying times regularly loom around the corner, so this way you can prepare yourself for what is to come.
Empathy
This is what physiologically sets adults apart from minors – being able to empathize. Yes, the part of our brain which enables us to understand other people’s feelings without experiencing them ourselves fully develops at around the age of 18, but it is still something that should be practiced and maintained. Discovering what is behind other people’s feelings is much more constructive than to wait for them to come back in an unpleasant and mutually inconsiderate manner.
Telling the truth
Urge yourself to resist from editing facts, misinterpreting meaning, playing with context, and any form of lying in general. One thing is humour, but when things get sincere, stay on the gentle and authentic side of things. Hiding the truth won’t serve you on the long run, so you might as well come face to face with terms instantaneously.
Adapt your living space
This is where you come to unwind, relax, get your facts together, and recharge your batteries, so it is highly recommendable that you adapt certain things in your home to your advantage. Now, it doesn’t have to be like Feng shui, where you deliberately try to harmonize everything with your surroundings, but an appealing room colour, soft bed pillows, plants, and other elements should be in tune with your tastes and preferences. Make your home as cozy as possible. Inspirational and productive hobbies are a great way to put your mind at ease, so make yourself a creative nook, and add some cozy office furniture that will fit your needs.
Hygiene
Your environment must be clean and toxic-free. Kitchens, bathrooms, cellars, and attics are usually full of germs and are suitable for certain infestations, so having control over such issues is necessary. Honestly, who would live in a house that is crawling with pests? In such situations, online pest professionals have some amazing non-toxic ideas to deal with all sources of diseases. These solutions include snap traps, mechanical traps, attractants, glue boards, and other approaches to pest management, so make sure to check them out if necessity demands it.
Conclusion
As you have noticed from this sermon, change comes from the inside-out. Of course, your home should be kept in order and in tune with your lifestyle and rhythm, but nothing can be done properly if your mind is not set for improvement. Achieving inner-peace is no mere feat. It takes a lot of devotion and patience, however the rewards are immense. Once you realize how to take full control over your life, nothing will be able to disrupt you.
Resources:
http://www.katrinaleechambers.com/remove-negative-energy-in-your-home/
http://blog.sivanaspirit.com/harmonize-your-living-space
http://liveboldandbloom.com/09/lifestyle/10-practical-steps-to-inner-peace
http://www.healthfitnessrevolution.com/harmonize-your-living-space
http://www.soundstrue.com/store/harmonize-your-home-5857.html
http://tinybuddha.com/blog/let-go-of-control-how-to-learn-the-art-of-surrender/
http://www.craftstylish.com/item/115116/how-to-set-up-hobby-room-at-home
http://www.beliefnet.com/Wellness/Whole-Home/Creating-Sacred-Space.aspx
http://www.katrinaleechambers.com/remove-negative-energy-in-your-home/
http://www.gardeningbetter.com/upgrade-garden-ultimate-zen-hideout/
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Derek Lotts strives to find a perfect home. In his pursuit, he has gained the knowledge he is eager to share. Find more of his work at his web site: Smooth Decorator.
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