Pamela answers questions regarding traveling for love to an exotic country and a husband who dishes out the silent treatment.

Dear Pamela,
I am travelling to Altea in Spain at Easter and, for some time, I have felt that my daughter and I will be meeting a significant love interest each. Do you see this too? Also, I feel a relocation to that area may happen.  I would value your insight on this please.

Sincerely,
Mom and Daughter

Dear Mom and Daughter:

Hearing the song by 10CC, “The things we do for love.”  And I hear Steve Miller sing, “Look through the window, tell me what do you see?” and getting a vision of a big glass window that has a road with houses. What that means is make sure you want to really move because there is love in your own back yard so there is no need to be traveling for love. I see lots of men lined up at your door with tickets in their hand. I hear an announcer say, “We have a winner!” I see a man holding up a golden ticket, jumping up in down with excitement. He is now at your door on one knee while the other leg is bent, you are standing, and he grabs your hand and kisses it. With that, I am hearing Mr. Rogers sing, “Who are the people in your neighborhood.”

Your daughter is another story! The concept of traveling for love may well work for her. I see her with a dark haired man on a cobble stone road walking hand and hand and laughing. The feeling I get is that they travel together all over Europe, but mostly France, Italy, and my guides added Espana. I see them both using their arms to hold up a little girl who is one or two. She is dressed in a cute pink outfit with a white headband around her head. That can mean three things. First, they have a child together. Second, the child is symbolizing their relationship in the infant, happy stage. Or third, they will do some type of project together.

Lastly, I see you both lying in bathing suits in the sun. I’m not sure if it is warm enough to do that in April or if Altea has beaches.  But, you both need to relax and have fun. I also get visions of good food in restaurants. And lots of gorgeous dark hair men! Make this vacation about enjoying your time there and less about traveling for love.

Blessings,
Pamela

Dear Pamela:

I am so mad at my husband, Ron! This happens rarely, but when he gets mad over something I do or say, he goes into his man cave and won’t talk to me.  Last week he didn’t talk to me for two days except for one or two sentences to ask and answer questions. I have a gut feeling of what happened but I don’t know for sure. What happened? Should I bring it up now that all is forgiven or let it go? Why won’t he communicate with me, like I do with him?

Anita

Dear Anita:

I’m hearing the song lyric, “Put your hand in the hand of the man who stills the water.” At the same time, I got a vision of a bird being turned over. The vision of the bird is symbolic of a story a former spiritual adviser shared with me. She was having a hard time with the concept of turning things over to God. One day a bird was on its back struggling. She heard a voice that said, “Turn it over.” She turned the bird onto its belly and it flew away.

What that means is to let the argument and what happened go. Give it to God. The song lyric means two things. First, put your hand into God, the Universe, or whatever you choose to call it. Second, put your hand into your husband’s hand and move on to calmness.

I am seeing one of my symbol visions of a car engine with the hood up. That is symbolic for that most women are clueless on how to fix a car engine. The majority of men were never taught how to deal with emotions. Nor were they taught how to talk about their emotions.

Anita, you are a good communicator so it is easy for you to talk about what is bothering him. I do get that Ron can, at times, talk about things. I’m hearing the Beatles sing, “Let it be, let it be.” It is important to allow him to be himself. My guides said, “Silent talker.” I am interpreting that to mean… interrupted by the song lyric, “Show me, show me that you really love me.” Which validates what I was going to type! He shows you how he loves you and doesn’t verbally express it well. So watch his silent communication to tell you what is going on and trust your gut.
Finally, trust that the important issues will be talked about. Trust – what is meant to be talked about will.

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