We have all been there. You have a crisis or a critical situation and you call a psychic. You make a call with the hope of getting some comfort regarding the situation. However, what was meant to be a simple reading turned out to be a disaster. The psychic did not tell you what you wanted to hear. In fact, they told you just the opposite. It did not feel right. Something was off – could the psychic readings be wrong? Is that possible? This is a scene which many psychics and clients experience on a daily basis. There is no judgments to be made about it – it just happens as a part of life. As a psychic or intuitive reader, I do a lot of readings. Some of the clients are first-time callers and some of them are regular clients. More often than not, this situation tends to happen with first time callers. The panic call to a psychic They call in a panic mode. They have a burning question. More importantly, they have something they want to hear in response to their question. The first sign to a psychic reader that something is off is that they will keep asking the same question over and over again. The client wants to hear a certain response. In addition to that, they want to know that the Universe will provide what they want, and they also need the validation of that from a psychic. If it doesn’t work with the first psychic, they go to the next one. Life is at times dramatic and things can happen suddenly. We all panic – it is human nature to panic when something unexpected happens. However, things can work in our favor if we can still retain a little bit of our composure. Simply said – but the hardest thing to do. Getting a reading during a crisis The best way to get psychic readings during a crisis situation is make an attempt to calm down if possible. Meditation helps – but at times, it may not be feasible. What else can be done? Maybe a few deep breaths and a short walk or a small drive to run an errand can help. If none of these appeal to you, try what works when you want to calm down. It may be a bubble bath, it may be a walk in the park, or it could be something totally different. You know it best. Once you have calmed down a bit, it is best to write down your questions. All of them – from the first one to the hundredth one, if you have that many. This will help you decide what it is that you want to know from the reading. The next step would be to sort of put a priority on the questions. Most of the questions can be divided into 2-5 categories at the most. Highlight the important questions in each category. When you call a psychic, just ask them the first question in the first category. More often than not, you will find that it either answers multiple questions in your category or covers the answers to multiple questions in different categories. This is the beauty of a reading, it will cover issues that you want to address in a detailed answer. Once you get a feel for the psychic, you can make your next call accordingly. When is it time to hang up? It may happen at times that you do not connect with the psychic. This only takes 30-60 seconds to find out. You will know in the first minute or two if this is not the right time to get a reading from this particular psychic. In that case, the best thing to do is to hang up. Most folks will refund your monies if you hang up in the first minute or two. What is not right is to go on and on with the psychic readings and ask questions hoping to hear what you want to hear. Do not expect a refund from a psychic under those conditions. Most companies have guidelines on their refund policies and from what I am aware of, no one will credit you for a reading gone bad. Alternate readings Another way to work with a psychic is to get an email reading first. You can gauge from the email reading response as to whether or not you would like to engage with a psychic further. And if you feel too overwhelmed to talk, you can do a chat reading too. The advantage of doing a chat reading is that your questions/answers are recorded and you can go back and review them. Also, you are not likely to ask the same question a million times. Getting a feel for a psychic Take a look at the bio for the psychic, their areas in which they give psychic readings, some client testimonials and any articles they may have. If nothing clicks after you look at all these things, it is time to move on. Go and study the bio for the next psychic. You will know in a few minutes after glimpsing through an article, bio, or reviews whether you would want to work with this particular psychic. It is a gut feeling you will get. Trust your instincts – they are there for a reason! Nothing is more powerful than your own gut instincts – follow them! Views:]]>