Is it possible for your soul mate to hate you? Love Relationship expert, Pamela Cummins offers valuable insight for this question.
Dear Pamela:
Does my soul mate hate me?
Anonymous
Dear Readers:
This question was sent anonymously through my email readings contact form on my website, since she didn’t send a payment I never answered her. However, I thought to use it for my column to elaborate on the topic of soul mates. In case you do not know what a soul mate is, here’s the Wikipedia definition:
A soul mate is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity. This may involve similarity, love, romance, comfort, intimacy, sexuality, sexual activity, spirituality, or compatibility and trust.
Many people think their soul mate has to be a romantic partner, although this is not always the case. A soul mate can be your: parent, child, friend, sibling, teacher, student, boss, co-worker, rabbi, reverend, or anyone else where both of you connect deeply.
Do you see anything about hate in the above definition? Of course not! Is it possible to hate your soul mate? Maybe, yet below all that hateful garbage is hidden love. When I feel the energy of the woman who sent in the question there was hurt, disappointment, and anger. Manipulation on both of their parts felt intense, as well as immaturity, game playing and unreasonable expectation of one another. Underneath all those negative issues was the love each of them so desperately wanted.
Now, I don’t know the whole story, nor do I desire to psychically read all their drama! What I can tell you is they’re trapped, like so many people, on how romantic love “should be.” She wants to be rescued and taken care of, he desires the same along with having his freedom. One part of their story I do pick up is their relationship is like a soap opera, with both of them playing their dysfunctional part that results in negative emotions. So yes, at times, momentarily they both hate each other.
What those two desire are to be loved, comforted, and deep intimacy; therefore, they have to work on themselves. My guides chimed in, “Like the rest of you need to do.”
To truly enjoy our soul mates we need to do the following: work on personal growth, enhance our spirituality, cultivate self-love, conquer our issues, develop tolerance of people, become compassionate, and accept others for who they are, not what we want them to be. When two people do their best to form those traits, the quality of their soul mate relationship naturally improves.
Lastly, if you think your soul mate hates you, look within to ponder if perhaps you hate yourself?
Blessings,
Pamela
Pamela Cummins helps her clients take their nighttime messages and turn them into daytime wisdom to accelerate their personal and spiritual growth. She is an author, dream interpreter, and intuitive coach. To learn more about Pamela and grab your free gifts, please visit her websites https://learndreaminterpretation.com/ and https://www.pamelacummins.com/
