This month we look at finding true love and explore if these two best friends can become romantic?

Hi Pamela:

Maybe you can give me some happy insight? I have been divorced for six years now and still don’t feel like I’m good enough for anyone. So my question is am I going to feel true love again and about when do you think this would happen? Also, I don’t know if you can help me, but the job I’m at right now is causing a lot of stress and anxiety for me, and I have been sick ever since I started there. Do you see me getting a different job anytime soon? Thank you very much, please I need help.

Beatrice

Hi Beatrice:

As a coach, the first thing I thought of is you’re not going to find true love until you work on your self-love, feel content about yourself, and have the attitude of is he good enough for me. Now, let’s see what my guides have to say.

“Work on yourself, feel deep fulfillment within. Put your job search before your concern for a soul mate,” is what I’m hearing. “This place (job) is toxic for your health.” In my third eye, I see a wall that has been opened up to reveal a mega amount of mold behind it. I can’t say if this is symbolic or true in the physical; however, it is validating the need for you to leave. I heard, “Six,” which could mean days, weeks, months, interviews, the new job has six in it somehow, or it could be another meaning.

My guides said, “Put your resume together and make your job search a full time job.” In other words, spend as much time on the search after work and on your days off. In the meantime, be out in the fresh air as much as possible. Also, walking is good for you, try to walk daily.

To answer the question if and when true love will come into your life, my guides are saying, “Yes, yes, yes! Although focus on your life, self-work, and finding a job first. Put you soul mate on the back burner, and before you know it – love will be on the front burner; boiling over.”

Blessings,

Pamela

Dear Pamela:

Please tell me if I’m going to be with my best friend and if I should tell him exactly how I feel about him? And if he feels the same way?! Please and thank you!!

Abigail

Dear Abigail:

I’m sorry, but I heard “No,” right away. It’s not that he hadn’t thought about, nor doesn’t feel attracted to you. My guides just said, “It’s not his destiny.” He doesn’t see you as his type, yet loves you very much.

Honestly, if you told your best friend how you felt it would hinder the relationship. I just got a vision of Julia Roberts from a movie where her best friend was getting married and the chaos it causes, which would happen to your relationship. Now, I’m getting a vision of lips that say, “Shh..,” with an index finger in front of them. Silence is golden in this case. Another meaning of the Julia Robert’s movie is it’s validation of his destiny is to be with another woman.

“There is someone else for you in five,” my guides said, which could mean five days, weeks, months, or years. It’s time to start the process of letting go of the idea of being with your best friend romantically, although I understand that’s not an easy task to do. Allow yourself to grieve all the different emotions this will bring up. I heard the old song, “The dream, the impossible dream,” the message I’m receiving from these lyrics is what will be the most difficult to let go of is – the dream of the relationships.

I got a vision of a tall man with long legs for you; however, this could be symbolic. Therefore, if a man of interest with short leg pops into your path, please take the time to get to know him. What I’m receiving strongly is whoever you end up with, he has children around him; whether that’s his, yours, family members, or children you have together.

In the meantime, treasure the friendship you have with your best friend for it feels very special.

Blessings,
Pamela

Pamela Cummins helps her clients take their nighttime messages and turn them into daytime wisdom to accelerate their personal and spiritual growth. She is an author, dream interpreter, and intuitive coach. To learn more about Pamela and grab your free gifts, please visit her websites https://learndreaminterpretation.com/ and https://www.pamelacummins.com/