Pamela Cummins talks about men who cheat on their wives and their other women.

Dear Pamela:

When is my baby’s daddy going to leave his wife? We’ve been together for two years and have so much fun when he does come to see me.  He tells me that he doesn’t love her and loves me. So why is he still there?

Tired of Waiting

Dear Tired:

The first thing I heard was the voice of this man who once said, “That too many men are going around spreading their seed.” I’m sorry to say but I feel like you’re not the only girlfriend he has. My guides added, “Does he love you, yes at the moment when he say’s it.” I get a vision of him putting on a hat, walking around the corner, and forgetting all about you. (Sorry) He does think of you and that’s when you hear from him.

I keep hearing a line out of my book Psychic Wisdom on Love and Relationship about men eating their cake and will share the majority of the paragraph with you:

The female callers want to know when their man is going to leave their wife or girlfriend and be happy with just them. Many of these men have children with one, two, and even three different women. Some of these men are unemployed, drink, and do drugs. Why should they change? Talk about eating their cake: a bunch of women giving them sex, money, free meals, and maid service. If one becomes a nag, they just go to another.

I’m uncomfortable saying this, yet I need to be honest; you are one of the women that paragraph is talking about. My guides added, “He is not going to change, so you have to.” He really has been truthful to you. I know that sounds weird; however, his actions have been honest. I’m hearing, “His words have been sugarcoated.” He really does believe his words are honest because he is a habitual liar.

Let’s go back to your question of if he is going to leave his wife; I got a vision of a man with a blanket wrapped around him, which is symbolic for his wife as his security blanket. Now, I’m hearing the O’Jays singing their song “For the Love of Money.” Money is another reason he will not divorce his wife. He is comfortable there in his home and doesn’t want to replace his wife. I heard, “Why should he when he can get it on the side.”

My guides are shifting their energy back to you. I see an ancient lifetime and flashes of different parts of history. What those glimpses are symbolic for is who the two of you have been before in past lives. “Brother, sisters, wives, husbands, slaves, kings,” is the message I am hearing. I saw you together as husband and wife in the 1920’s, therefore you still have that connection. But it’s time to let go of it.

I’m hearing, “You won’t change me.” You can’t change this man, yet you can change yourself and now is the time to do so. I’m hearing a man’s voice saying, “We have a winner.” The one good thing that came out of your relationship is your son. That is how I’m getting it, if you have a daughter by this man, then I am picking up on her masculine energy. This child is a gift and will help you grow into a more responsible person. I heard, “Go back to school.” You need more education in whatever format that will help you get ahead in life. The other thing I’m getting is this child will help you in your old age.

Lastly, I’m hearing, “We’ve have to get it together.” You need to get your life together. “For it is time to go within to release the garbage and tapes you have received in this life and the last,” my guides proceed with, “it is time to set your issues free, begin now.’” What all that means is you have issues that you need to work on, things that have happened in your past affect your now. If you work on your self-growth, I see a quality man to have a relationship with in your future. If you choose not to work on yourself, it’s the same old, same old.

Blessings,
Pamela

Please send your love and relationship questions to pamelabellesprit@gmail.com Pamela Cummins aka “The Musical Psychic” is also a radio show host and coach. She is the author of Psychic Wisdom on Love and Relationships, Insights for Singles: Steps for Everlasting Love, the FREE eBook Pamela’s Love Collection, and Learn the Secret Language of Dreams. To learn more, please visit www.pamelacummins.com